It is not an easy thing to identify the existing sexual problems with your partner. Still if the problem occurs find it out, discuss and solve though it can be a very delicate matter.
Do not neglect the fact that if you do not wish to openly discuss the problem it will never disappear. If you feel uncomfortable to express the things that bother you or cause embarrassment, try to overcome these feelings and find certain tact for a talk. Discuss your desires, and moments that please you, it will help to get rid of lots of misunderstandings and make your relationships stronger.
Communication is the first step to happy and healthy sexual relationships. If you can be frank to your partner and tell him or her everything what makes you happy about how you feel and what you want it will make you both satisfaction. Still be careful not to upset your partner or make him/her feel embarrassed.
However if you experience communication problems, take the help of a sex therapist who will objectively state the problem and offer the best solution. A sex expert can help to remove tension in such situations and provide atmosphere in which partners can communicate their feelings to each other and discuss any difficulties.